not successful in india

in our country many inter caste and inter religion marriages take place.there are very famous past marriages but mostly in celebrities.in common society it is still not acceptable,there is always no acceptance by parents,but surprising that generally gents accept such,but female members generally not cooperating.either more work is taken and somewhere not allowed in kitchen.the women who leaves everything for her spouse feel very sad and humiliated on many occasions
even sometimes the parents are successful in getting divorce and the man who use to dream of real love cooperate his parents. but what is the effect of it on the women who in love married such against the will of her parents is of nowhere.generally 99%male are not faithful after love marriages.they easily even in the celebrities the first marriage of amir khan,though many were successful but only due to their broadmindedness and high profile.very high profile marriages like daughter of mohd ali jinnah,nawob patudi,sharukh khan are successful.but such are not accepted in middle class families due to there orthodox nature and mentality.
so by this blog i suggest to the young not to flow in emotions and first see the status of family and background.generally the boys make fool of girls and in the end girls face problem in their whole life. many such marriage i know were failure doe to narrow mindedness of their families.thousands of girls lost their virginity and the boys remarried and living good life with other wife.the other wife never complaint of virginity of men but the girl is never accepted as such due to her first marriage.she becomes second hand but the boy never.
so i suggest girls to not copy foreign culture we in large are not advanced as other part of world. be very particular of such affairs and be away of depression,virginity loss or why to become second hand deciding such marriages without any guarantee.our country is very far behind in this respect and will take decades to be advanced.i know many whose parents got separation by giving compensation but will it bring back her prestige and days which she lost for such men who were mean to there promises and left the girl in between though earlier they must have promised to make their life a paradise.beware of such and girls do not get bluffed in emotions or flirts.
najeeb khan agra. 282005
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